I believe that in life, everyone has his/her own agenda. From the day u're borned, to the day u die is all destined. Whoever u'll meet, and at wat stage and wat time of ur life is all planned.

Some things come to u just to let u learn something. Some things just to guide u, some just to wake u up, and some to help u...

The only difference is the people's characters. The same thing may happen to different person, and getting 2 different response. For example 2 person fall out of love. One may analyse the whole thing and learn from it. Another may drown himself in sorrow and die from it....