The AnswerNeed to close some chapters of my life in order to move on. Learn from the chapter, and then close it. Cos the purpose of the chapter is just to prepare me for the next chapter, a major chapter.
The chapter that I'm going to close, has too much unexplained things, unexplained and absurd feelings. It had lasted a few years. And from this chapter, I have learnt to accept things as they are. It has shown me my flaws, and I must correct it for the next chapter.
The next chapter is a major chapter for me. Something life-changing, and it'll clearly mark the path for rest of my life. Make or break- the impact is that great.
There's something that I dunno. I dunno myself. Have I not forgotten someone whom I thot I have forgotten? Or have I like someone whom I feel it's impossible?
We're all confused creatures. Sometimes I hope that there is this "meng po soup" where we can just drink and erase all memories, and start everything afresh again. But things aren't going this way. We need to remember to learn. We need to feel pain to learn what we need to learn. Everyone wants the easy way out, but what have we learnt at the end of the day, at the end of this life?
Something happened recently, and it affected me for a few hours. Mood, just like the stocks, plummet down, but within a few hours it went up to normal again.
What have I learnt from these event? Perhaps I have learnt that I need to seek more answers to understand myself. I know what to do, but the question is how to do? Things aren't that simple. We can't control ourselves, can we? If it's our body, our mind, why can't we control them?
Things, the way they are, should be left as they will be. We can't control other things, other people. Let it be. But we can change and improve ourselves.
From the book,"Rich Dad Poor Dad"
So for most people, the reason they don't win financially is because the pain of losing money is far greater than the joy of being rich. Another saying in Texas is "Everyone wants to go to Heaven, but no one wants to die." Most people dream of being rich, but are terrified of losing money.
Just as I also said that falling off my bike was part of learning to ride. I remember falling off only made me more determined to learn to ride. Not less. I also said that I have never met a golfer who has never lost a ball. To be a top professional golfer, losing a ball or a tournament only inspires golfers to be better, to practice harder, to study more. That's what makes them better. For winners, losing inspires them. For losers, losing defeats them.
Failure inspired winners. And failure defeats losers. It is the biggest secret of winners. It's the secret that losers do not know. The greatest secret of winners is that failure inspires winning; thus they're not afraid of losing.
Why am I unique1. I have a unique name.
2. I can drive car, boat and fly plane.
3. I tried scuba diving, and sky diving.
4. I can draw a square and a circle at the same time.
5. I have a masters and a degree which doesn't really relate to each other.
6. My work has absolutely no link to my field of my education.
7. I work at a job that doesn't even need a degree.
8. I bought my first car at age 23.
9. My mind is too powerful for my body.
10. I can gain weight and lose weight whenever I want.
11. I listen to new age music.
12. I am unorthodox.
13. I am who I am.
