Human beings are nothing more than a habit generating machine. Our actions, eventually form our habits. And they are stored in the subconscious. We form habits, but eventually we are controlled by them. It's hard to break a habit, and it takes a lot of conscious efforts and will power and determination to break them.
Therefore, habits can be a powerful tool if we can use them properly. Just like in my dung story in my previous entry, when things happen, u can view it from 2 ways. So if we form a habit to look at it from a positive way, we'll never be daunted by problems.
How we think controls how we act. Just like a friend of mine. He always feels that he has no friends and no one wants to befriend him and pulls a long face everyday. One day, another classmate of mine came to me and told me that he's afraid to talk to him as he always pull a long face. Well it's a vicious cycle...
In a meeting, have u noticed that everyone sits in the same place? Once we're comfortable with a place or seat, we'll stick to it. We're resistant to changes. That place becomes "our seat" and it formed our "habit". One day, just try sitting in another people's seat.
Tuesday, August 29, 2006
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